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Gay Online dating misconceptions abound with those people who have experienced them and not had any success.

There will always be people who don’t have the success they expect from these sites but more often than not it isn’t because there aren’t any suitable people looking for someone like them but more likely because of the way they have used the site.

Poor presentation will generally bring poor results. Poor understanding or gay feng shui dating techniques can end badly.

Gay Feng Shui Dating Is Your Advantage

Poor contact with other people will generally mean the lines of communication will be quiet most of the time. Poke them.

It is not all that hard for anyone, no matter who they might be, to find someone willing to communicate with them out of the millions of people who visit gay dating sites online every day of the year.

There are people just like you online right now looking for other people just like you.

If they are using the sites as they are meant to be used then they will be getting the results they desire and their life will be enhanced from the experience.

You can expect the same results if you take action.

Fortunately most of the sites offer comprehensive instruction on how to get the most from your experience and it is well worth reading what they have to say as they have been in the business and listen to the feedback of the people who use their sites and there is nothing quite like consumer opinions for help build a better business model. Plus, understanding gay feng shui dating rules give you an advantage that most do not have.

Most of the techniques are common sense and common courtesy but there are tips and tricks that will help you

make more friends and create better long term relationships if you apply them correctly.

It’s all information that you could read in one evening and once you know how to apply the techniques the gay

world is your playing field, after all we are the party!

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There are various levels of features on most of the online gay dating sites and accordingly there are different levels of membership costs.

Most of the sites will offer a free membership and this will allow you to browse the profiles and see the types of people who are searching for friendship.

The bigger sites can have thousands of people on their databases and to manually look through all the profiles would take weeks.

Depending on which site you are on some of them offer limited searching abilities for their free memberships while others won’t allow you to search until you are a member.

You will soon see that the variety of people who have their profiles on these sites is considerable and it is highly likely that there will be someone there you would like to contact and interact with further.

This is one of the reasons these sites allow you to get a free membership. They know that for most people there will be enough interest for them to sign up and become a paid member so they can take advantage of all the other features of their site.

These big sites will offer dating advice and also safe dating practices as there are always some people who you will need to be careful interacting with on these sites just as you would need to be careful of the people you meet at the local bar.

There are various systems in place at the big dating sites that attempt to reduce or eliminate the problem people and they are always trying to improve their services in all matters.

Some of the dating sites also arrange holidays and romantic getaways so they are a lot more than just an advertising medium these days.

Unless you have been on one recently then you might not know what you are missing. Join several gay dating sites to open up your gay feng shui opportunity. Remember look for someone with the matching kua to yours. Whether you use the Power of ten or the matching resonance systems will be entirely up to you. Bottoms remember to figure you kua by adding 4 not subtracting from 11.

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I was face booking the other day and a friend let me in on a thought that most Americans probably have about gay feng shui dating! His thought was, “What does interior decorating have to do with love? Seems pretty shallow to me.” Well, my answer was very simple, nothing. Feng shui is not interior decorating. It is the manipulation of energy. A channeling of it using geomancy or environment to help out. In love it is a matching of energy resonances between two people.

In gay feng shui it can be rather complicated, if you have a clouded view of who you are and what role you really play. For instance, many of us are confused by feminine role playing. It’s really simple. Do you poke or like to be poked? Masculine energy pokes and does the poking. Feminine energy likes to be poked and loves the nurture. But of course, we like to try and fit in and sometimes that makes for a confusing justification of the basic roles we play. The power of programing by our schools, peers, family and churches tend to create even more noise on the basic role that we really are. So, break it down to what you love to do. Poke or be poked. This goes for our lesbian sisters, too!

Once you figure out your true nature, then it’s just a matter of matching the formula to your feminine or masculine nature. After you have figured out the formula that is your kua or energy resonance. Then it’s just a matter of matching your kua to another with the opposite role of yours. Same kua opposite role. Unless of course you want a traditional marriage in which you’ll match to the power of ten.

Feng shui is a science and not “hokus pokus”. It is based on over 5000 years of recorded observation. The rules apply to gay and lesbian men and women as they would to straight men and women. We are after all made up of energy! For the complete formula for an equal modern gay relationship and tactics for online dating get Feng Shui Tactics For Online GAY Dating . There are real reactions both positive and negative depending on what you are looking for. Just look to chemistry and you’ll see it in action.

This Ebook is no longer available! However, Feng Shui Tactics For Online GAY Dating is an updated version of this CD-ROM ebook and a new video is in the works.

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Gay Life: When gay online dating first became popular there were still many of us who had preconceived ideas of the types of people who frequented these sites.

Gay Life: Gone are the days in back alleys!

There were many of us who considered finding a date online to be something that they would never do because of what they believed was some sort of social stigma attached to people who advertised for love and friendships.  Helping the door to the closet stay shut.

These personals have been going on for years in the print media with people advertising in the local newspapers for relationships but it wasn’t until the Internet and the ability with technology to quickly find the optimum person that this type of searching for partners has really taken off and become popularized.  It’s an easy tool to help match you using gay feng shui dating techniques.

Now most people consider gay online dating to be as ‘normal’ as going to a gay bar or a gay club to find someone.

In fact many people consider gay online dating to be a far more effective and appropriate method of developing gay long term relationships than other methods.

It certainly makes it a lot easier when coming out, if people can converse with one another in their own comfortable surroundings where they don’t feel out of their comfort zone. Is a lot easier for people to express themselves when there is no fear present which is often the situation in the ‘real world’.  Better coming out online first.

It is a lot easier to make decisions on whether you would like to take the relationship any further when communicating online and if it looks like the friendship isn’t going anywhere for one or other of the people involved it is also easy to end it and move on to more suitable people before getting too involved as can happen relatively quickly offline.

There are so many more benefits of gay online dating that it was always going to increase in popularity and become accepted however the widespread acceptance and use of these sites has even amazed the experts.

Gay online dating is extremely popular and destined to become more so at a rapidly increasing rate. Coming out has never been easier.  It’s gay life in the new cyber world!

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Sometimes in gay life or when you are first coming out, you sometimes feel like you are searching for love in all the wrong places. Well, actually it might not be the places as much as it is the energy or “chi” you project.

Here’s where feng shui can help. Feng shui works by connecting “like energy” to “like energy”.

Let me explain, I’m sure you have seen this for yourself many times. Let’s say you go to a gay western bar, the people there will most likely be dressed like cowboys and cowgirls. That bar will not attract fashion models and socialites. That’s what I mean by “like” energy attracts “like” energy.

So, let’s say the person you would like to connect to, someone with your “like energy” or kua would be found at a western style bar or club. You go there looking and still find nothing and even worse, it seems that no one there even sees you.

What’s wrong? This place has your “like energy” looking for a connection, but nothing happens, so it must be the wrong place, right?

There might not be anything wrong with the place, but more likely it’s the kua energy you are projecting. This is where feng shui can play a mean trick on you, or should I say your lack of understanding of the rules of feng shui plays the tricks.

If the feng shui isn’t right you might actually be almost invisible to your potential connections. That’s because you unwittingly masked your presence and then started feeling like it must be all your own fault because no one noticed you. Not true, the problem was, you were not using the power of feng shui to your advantage.

Now you can remedy this situation by finding out exactly how to use the powers of feng shui to your advantage in finding a date and even finding true love.

Each of us has our own feng shui energy resonance and each of those energy resonances have supportive and non supportive matches.

Knowing your own energy resonance or ‘kua’ is very important for many reasons and one of those is knowing exactly what colors to wear that will support your energy kua.

These are “your supportive kua colors” and it’s these that make you stand out in a gay crowd and get noticed by others with the same energy or kua. Those with the same kua are the people who will notice you and be attracted to you which is exactly what you have been looking for but haven’t been able to find.

So now you see, there are no wrong places, just missed-matched chi or energy. It’s the chi and not the place!

An important thing to remember about feng shui is that it’s not going to tell you how to run your life or what you should like or dislike, it has nothing to do with your religious beliefs, but feng shui can help you attract the better choices when you are at the “like energy” place looking for love, if you understand how it works and start using it to your advantage. Then you will no longer be looking for love in all the wrong places, now love will be looking for you! So, let gay life and coming out take it’s own course.

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Gay Life And Coming Out: Top ten GAY Dating Tips Your MAMA never told you!

Gay Life And Coming Out: Top Ten Tips For Gay Dating Your Mother Never Taught You
Here’s 10 important gay dating tips your mother never taught you that use time proven feng shui methods.

These important gay dating tips can help your mind create the best dating experience that you can ever have! It can blow your socks off!

1. Collect images of men or women in activities that you are a part of or want to be a part of.

2. Decide whether you want a younger or older spouse, partner or date. Make sure the images that you collect reflect what you have in mind.
Also, don’t dwell to much on perfection, the likely hood of getting an exact replica of George Clooney or Alysia Milano is very unrealistic. If
the image is of an activity that you wish for in your relationship add it. For example, it might be of someone cooking a turkey feast in a “Leave It to Beaver” household or it might be someone at a “gay swinger’s party”. Whatever it is that you desire, pick an image of that. Younger or older is important and can affect the relationship.

3. Prepare yourself mentally for gay dating using feng shui. It is probably the most fun job that you have ever done. It is a job, though. You will need to keep in mind that feng shui has a formula, but it is up to you to visualize the kind of relationship that you wish to have. Chemistry is not in feng shui, it’s between you and your prospective mate. Goals in life are also between you and your prospect. So be prepared to be let down sometimes and be prepared to commit to the one when feel that it is time. Meditation is a very good thing to do right before a date. And be open, your mind is powerful.

4. Don’t be afraid to experiment! If you thought that threesome, open relationship you were fantasying about turned out to be a bitter cup of tea, then change that image out for a new one that suits who you really are. If the monogamy thing is just a little to straight and narrow for you, then chuck those images and fill the images in your photo collection of things that make you feel alive.

5. Be safe. Always meet your prospect at a public place on the first date. Spend at least two to three hours together before you decide on the next date. One should probably have at least three dates before a sleep over. It is better to have a good idea where the relationship is
headed before you get naked. If that is all you want, getting naked, then make sure your prospect is on the same page. This shouldn’t be to
much to ask. Some relationships are going to be just a good romp in the hay. And that’s what makes this job of dating kind of exciting. But,
be prepared when you are struck by Cupid’s arrow and both of you are ready for something much more rewarding.

6. Be well groomed! You wouldn’t want your prospective date to have body odor, so expect that he or she wouldn’t want that either.
Although, body scent is very important, so don’t wear too much fragrance, be clean and allow your own scent to be sensed. Chemistry has
to do with the compatibility of your senses. Try not to mask them.

7. Be dressed for success! If you are going to a Black Tie event wear a tux or an appropriate dress. If you are going on a picnic then, wear something casual. Always dress appropriately and let your prospect know or ask your prospect directly. If there there was ever something that can make a date awkward, it is feeling out of place. Don’t be afraid to ask or to tell your date what one should wear on the occasion. However, if it is a spontaneous happenstance, then let fate carry the moment, be flexible.

Always wear a supportive color to your kua. It will make you shine, standout and help to attract the most positive response to your desires.

8. Know who you are and don’t be a afraid to flirt. Flirting let’s your date know that you are interested. If online, send a message, if you’re someplace where your prospect can see you then you will know instantly whether they are interested. Flirting is a two way boulevard with
many lanes to choose from and many angles, too. So, be yourself and you’ll attract like energy. If you don’t like what you are attracting
then change your approach. Gay dating can be tricky.

9. Express your intent. If you ask, then be prepared to make the decisions, be flexible and be prepared. If you need to go dutch, then state that when you ask. You might be able to figure something else out to do. If you don’t, the one you ask out should expect you to pay. Nothing can make a date turn sour than bad finances. If you don’t have much money, then go cheap the first three times and then bring your prospect home for a fantastic meal and most likely something more.

10. Gauge your prospects mood. You can tell if something isn’t quite right. If they aren’t willing, then make other arrangements to
suit their mood, even to the extent of postponing the date for a better time. It will usually be better all the way around. Again keep an open
and clear mind of what you desire and be flexible enough to allow it to come to fruition. Communication is the main course. Chi compatibility is
always the best outcome. Find out your chi or kua and then attract compatible chi or a compatible kua to you.

Here’s the complete list of the 10 important single dating tips:

• Collect images of people that are doing what you like doing or want to do.
• Decide on the age and look of your ideal mate
• Prepare yourself mentally
• Don’t be afraid to experiment
• Be safe
• Be well groomed, don’t cover up your essence
• Be dressed appropriately
• Flirt
• Express your intent. Be honest about your finances
• Be flexible with your single dating

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I have found a website that I think every gay single person should at least checkout once!

Here you just might see why having your own web cam really gives you a big advantage in the gay singles online dating scene.

Gay video chat is the most cutting edge way to do that. So, get a move on and sign up and make your own gay video personals.

Luck Charm Stu

P.S. Here’s the link to that website. Have fun!

Gay Video Chat And Gay Video Personals

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Gay Life and Coming Out: Compatible Gay Long Term Relationship

Gay Life and Coming Out: Have you ever had well, bad sex? Having to imagine someone else or even worse yet you couldn’t get it up or you had to fake it?

Well, if you are healthy and physically fit then your match partner was probably the wrong kua for you. The number one feng shui rule is that like energy attracts like energy. Your thoughts and energy follow some basic feng shui rules. So if your lover is of the same energy as yours it is most likely going to manifest itself in some pretty amazing hot love making, better performance and orgasm.

Picking the right gay match for you is pretty simple if you know the secrets to finding your kua’s matches. First, of course, you need to know your own gay kua and then you need to know how to find the right gay match to your own kua.

Second the chemistry must be right between you both! You won’t have a great sexual act if you are both not looking for the same things. To enhance your performance and to have a great sexual orgasm you must be engaged at both a conscious level and a subconscious level.

As you know, there are many sexual positions and many different sexual desires, connecting up with the right one who gets your sexual desire instinctively is what most of us are trying desperately to find. Here’s where feng shui can help you find what you desire both in bed and in the rest of your partnership by matching up your kua with the right kua for you.

BDSM, uniforms, softcore, kissing, etc. is enhanced and much more rewarding for those who have matching kuas. Of course, the one night stand is also enhanced by a match, but if you know you are looking just for sex, then don’t worry to much about matching.

On the other hand, if you are looking for a LTR (long term relationship) it is very important that you pick a complimentary kua to your own. It will enhance your performance and bring your orgasm to new and higher heights than ever before. Like energy loves like energy.

Thirdly, feng shui offers you the opportunity to not only match up with the right one but also offers you the chance to find a true life partner. Sex is only one part of a marriage, and it’s a very big one, but having similar desires in other aspects of your life like entertainment/recreation, work goals and home goals can enhance your love making experience.

Is a sloppy kiss a turn on or is a necking more your style? Every gay kua has his or her match, so why hurt yourself with those, not so sexually satisfying hook ups? Know what your gay kua is and what your matches are, then go out on a couple of dates to see if chemistry is there and Wow a more enhanced performance and a better orgasm to top it off! There’s nothing better than the right gay match!

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Gay Life and Coming Out: If your love life has been full of loss for you lately, I know the pain in fact I think we all do but now it’s time to set your lost relationship in the past and get ready to move on. I mean really ready to move on. If you find yourself still pining for your ex-lover then maybe you aren’t ready to move on. You have two options, then.

The first one is to try and get back together and make things work. There are some gay feng shui methods for that too, but be careful! Besides I won’t be discussing this topic in this article. Option number two, is to sit back and heal. You will know when it’s time to get in the the saddle again.

Gay feng shui has some very specific rules for attracting the right kind of chi or energy resonance for each individual. First be sure to figure out exactly what your gay personal kua is. This is information you must have and being gay makes this step much more imperative, because we are very special and have different kuas.

Now, for you who are really ready to get back in the saddle and are ready for a meaningful and awesomely HOT gay relationship then let’s get started using feng shui! When you are using feng shui, like energy attracts like energy. So if you are pining, wining, crying and depressed, you will attract wining, pining, crying, depressed. Not exactly the best foundation for a fulfilling and excitingly HOT gay relationship! So the number one rule again is, like energy attracts like energy!

GAY FUN

Meditate before you go on your next date. It is very important to clear your mind and then begin to live the dream that you want in your relationship! Now when you go on the date, put on a new face! I don’t mean make up and eye shadow. I mean act like what you want!

If you want hot, sexy, steamy with vibrant confidence, then become that which you seek! The better you are at acting the part the easier it will become to actually be the part! If you are by nature a pessimist, a winner then work on being an optimist and stop wining if that is what you seek. If you are shy by nature then work on being more assertive and vibrant.

Now here is the thing if you’re looking for more than a one night stand. You will want to find someone with a matching kua to yours so that both of you are seeking similar things. If you are a kua of one, feminine, then you would best be matched to a kua of one, masculine.

However, if you seek conflict and adversity, which by the way can be quite exciting when things are good and extremely difficult when things are bad, you might consider a riskier kua (one that doesn’t match). Many seek this kind of relationship subconsciously, opposites do NOT attract if the seeking is for the adventure, so you would best think about what kind of experience you are seeking.

I hope you have grown enough not to seek such hard and usually painful relationships, but hey some are really into a type of BDSM of the heart. It’s all up to you!

Next when you are done with figuring out what is the best kua for your own you’ll want to read all the entries on this blog and checkout the CD-ROM FREE preview pages for easy to use guides in the “Visit Our Friends” section of this blog at the bottom of the page.

They all have one thing in common with this article and that is getting the best results that I can offer to your dating experience using amazing feng shui secrets that have been proven to work for thousands of years.

So put on your chaps, get saddled up, put on the right hat and you’ll attract the match your heart has been looking for. You will be amazed that with the proper attitude and clear vision of the energy you seek, you’ll find exactly that! Train your subconscious with meditation to coincide with your conscious mind and you’ll get that man or lesbian of your dreams. Match your kua!

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