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There is often a temptation with people to cloud the truth when using online gay dating services.

It is only natural for you to want to appear more appealing and that can be achieved by making things seem a little better than you are to the person you are communicating with.

Surprise!!!!!!

Surely they would like you more if they knew you had a fit and toned physique.

Maybe knocking a few years off your age might give you the chance to date more people.

Or maybe telling them that you have a high paid job might be the determining factor whether they allow you to meet them offline or not.

Well, it might seem like a good idea at the time but what do you think the person will do when they find out that their expectations are different from the reality?

Honesty is the best policy as what they expect is what they will get and you won’t have to try to live up to any false ideals that you have created.

You want people to like the real you and they can only do that if they really know who you are and not who you want them to believe you are.

I guess if it is purely an online only relationship then it might not matter as much but so many times what starts out as an gay online friendship turns into a romance that is taken to the next level offline and if you get yourself into a situation where you would like to finally meet in person you will have some explaining to do. Avoid the disappointment.

There are so many occasions where people have started gay online friendships in different countries and eventually met up in real life, so don’t assume that it won’t happen to you.

Think of how disappointed you will be if it does turn out to be the person of your dreams when you meet and they decide to take the relationship no further because they have been misled.

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While you search the internet for that special someone…the one of your dreams…your soul-mate…the other half of yourself, you can do a lot of things right. Sadly, you can, also, do a lot of things wrong…things that will guarantee failure and a broken heart. Out in the “real” world, being aggressive, demanding perfection and even little white lies can be ingredients for success. However, those same qualities are killers when you are dating online and off line, too, for that matter.

Feeling frustrated???????

There is a big difference between being aggressive or confident and being too aggressive, over-confident, or just plain sleazy or slimy from a anyone’s point of view. If you push too hard for a face-to-face, you will come across as too aggressive…maybe even, scary. Try to remember that you are not trying to close a business deal and keep the relationship progressing at a slow but steady pace. Patience is the key.

Nobody is perfect. We are all flawed in some way or another…and that includes you, as well. If you expect your prospect to be absolutely perfect and demand that, you will always be disappointed. Demanding perfectionism in your work is one thing. Demanding perfectionism from a friend, co-worker or a lover you are interested in is not just fine. It won’t happen. Expect flaws and just deal with them. Decide the ones you can live with and those you can’t.

Little white lies and false fronts won’t work. Be honest from the beginning of a relationship. Write your profile. Make it interesting but don’t make false statements. The truth will come out eventually anyway. If you say you are a lawyer who makes a million bucks a year and you are really an electrician that makes $75,000, you have set yourself up for failure.

Remember…Don’t be too aggressive, Don’t expect to ever find perfection and Don’t put on a false front. The three don’ts to gay dating.

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Gay Online dating misconceptions abound with those people who have experienced them and not had any success.

There will always be people who don’t have the success they expect from these sites but more often than not it isn’t because there aren’t any suitable people looking for someone like them but more likely because of the way they have used the site.

Poor presentation will generally bring poor results. Poor understanding or gay feng shui dating techniques can end badly.

Gay Feng Shui Dating Is Your Advantage

Poor contact with other people will generally mean the lines of communication will be quiet most of the time. Poke them.

It is not all that hard for anyone, no matter who they might be, to find someone willing to communicate with them out of the millions of people who visit gay dating sites online every day of the year.

There are people just like you online right now looking for other people just like you.

If they are using the sites as they are meant to be used then they will be getting the results they desire and their life will be enhanced from the experience.

You can expect the same results if you take action.

Fortunately most of the sites offer comprehensive instruction on how to get the most from your experience and it is well worth reading what they have to say as they have been in the business and listen to the feedback of the people who use their sites and there is nothing quite like consumer opinions for help build a better business model. Plus, understanding gay feng shui dating rules give you an advantage that most do not have.

Most of the techniques are common sense and common courtesy but there are tips and tricks that will help you

make more friends and create better long term relationships if you apply them correctly.

It’s all information that you could read in one evening and once you know how to apply the techniques the gay

world is your playing field, after all we are the party!

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There are various levels of features on most of the online gay dating sites and accordingly there are different levels of membership costs.

Most of the sites will offer a free membership and this will allow you to browse the profiles and see the types of people who are searching for friendship.

The bigger sites can have thousands of people on their databases and to manually look through all the profiles would take weeks.

Depending on which site you are on some of them offer limited searching abilities for their free memberships while others won’t allow you to search until you are a member.

You will soon see that the variety of people who have their profiles on these sites is considerable and it is highly likely that there will be someone there you would like to contact and interact with further.

This is one of the reasons these sites allow you to get a free membership. They know that for most people there will be enough interest for them to sign up and become a paid member so they can take advantage of all the other features of their site.

These big sites will offer dating advice and also safe dating practices as there are always some people who you will need to be careful interacting with on these sites just as you would need to be careful of the people you meet at the local bar.

There are various systems in place at the big dating sites that attempt to reduce or eliminate the problem people and they are always trying to improve their services in all matters.

Some of the dating sites also arrange holidays and romantic getaways so they are a lot more than just an advertising medium these days.

Unless you have been on one recently then you might not know what you are missing. Join several gay dating sites to open up your gay feng shui opportunity. Remember look for someone with the matching kua to yours. Whether you use the Power of ten or the matching resonance systems will be entirely up to you. Bottoms remember to figure you kua by adding 4 not subtracting from 11.

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I was face booking the other day and a friend let me in on a thought that most Americans probably have about gay feng shui dating! His thought was, “What does interior decorating have to do with love? Seems pretty shallow to me.” Well, my answer was very simple, nothing. Feng shui is not interior decorating. It is the manipulation of energy. A channeling of it using geomancy or environment to help out. In love it is a matching of energy resonances between two people.

In gay feng shui it can be rather complicated, if you have a clouded view of who you are and what role you really play. For instance, many of us are confused by feminine role playing. It’s really simple. Do you poke or like to be poked? Masculine energy pokes and does the poking. Feminine energy likes to be poked and loves the nurture. But of course, we like to try and fit in and sometimes that makes for a confusing justification of the basic roles we play. The power of programing by our schools, peers, family and churches tend to create even more noise on the basic role that we really are. So, break it down to what you love to do. Poke or be poked. This goes for our lesbian sisters, too!

Once you figure out your true nature, then it’s just a matter of matching the formula to your feminine or masculine nature. After you have figured out the formula that is your kua or energy resonance. Then it’s just a matter of matching your kua to another with the opposite role of yours. Same kua opposite role. Unless of course you want a traditional marriage in which you’ll match to the power of ten.

Feng shui is a science and not “hokus pokus”. It is based on over 5000 years of recorded observation. The rules apply to gay and lesbian men and women as they would to straight men and women. We are after all made up of energy! For the complete formula for an equal modern gay relationship and tactics for online dating get Feng Shui Tactics For Online GAY Dating . There are real reactions both positive and negative depending on what you are looking for. Just look to chemistry and you’ll see it in action.

This Ebook is no longer available! However, Feng Shui Tactics For Online GAY Dating is an updated version of this CD-ROM ebook and a new video is in the works.

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Coming out? Choose your words carefully to attract what you want!

Just coming out and ready to dive into the online gay life? When preparing your profile you need to take the time to consider how other people will react to the words you choose.

This is particularly important, as the ideas and descriptions of what you say in your profile is being interpreted by someone else.  Why is this important?  Because, you don’t want to be misinterpreted or misunderstood by your audience.

You have to remember that a sentence can have more than one perception and people could get the completely wrong opinion of you when reading what you have written.

When you believe you have all the information that you want in your profile read it out loud and see whether  you are happy with it. Other people will be reading it to themselves and you will find that many times you will make changes after reading it aloud. You’ll also find mistakes, missed words and even missed punctuation.

If you have a friend whom you trust and respect, have them read it to see what they think and whether you should make changes. They can offer some advice of what they think you should add or delete that you may have not even considered, looking at it from a different perspective than your own.

They might also point out traits in your personality that you should add that will more likely help you find that special someone. You might find that a different perspective might offer advice on why you haven’t found anyone or why your previous relationships didn’t workout.

Sometimes we are too close to the action to see where things have gone wrong and it is not uncommon for people to make the same relationship mistakes over and over again.

When you think you are happy with what you have written leave it for a day or two before posting it online and come back to it to see if you can make any improvements or add significant information that will help you find the right person.

There is no need to rush into doing this as another day or two of delay won’t matter in the end and it will give you time to think about what you have written.

Browse your dating services data base. You should be able to get some ideas from what other people write in their profiles but make sure yours is personalized to represent you and not just a copy of someones information.  This action can also focus you on what to look for while browsing the dating data base.

You are gay and therefore you are special!!! Coming out has never been easier online. Gay Life is what you are so be proud.

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Gay Life: Mature gay Couple

Well, since you’re reading this I believe that you are here looking to find one or coming out!

Howdy, I’m luck Charm Stu and gay life is just waiting for you to connect. A gay long term relationship is what most of us long for. The ancient Chinese using the art of feng shui have a system that, was suppressed for centuries due to homophobia, but is now being used to match up potential mates based on their kua or energy resonance. All of us are born with a certain energy resonance that is called “kua” when using feng shui. Your personal kua number contains information about what you like, things that help you and things you should avoid.

• Wouldn’t it be nice to find your perfect match?
• Wouldn’t it be incredible to find someone that knows exactly what you like in bed?
• Wouldn’t it be fantastic to have someone that is into your sexual fetishes or normalcy?
• Wouldn’t it be even more rewarding to wake up with the one who likes to do the things you like to do or even complement your aspirations?
• Wouldn’t it be perfect if he looked the way you want and was even the right age for you?
• Wouldn’t it be amazing to know that you are exactly what he is looking for, no insecurities, know worries about the little quirks you have or he has, just the confidence in knowing that whatever you are going through or he is going through is OK?
• Wouldn’t it be incredibly fun to create a home together, because both you and he know that it’s going to be a journey you’re both wanting and yearning to go on?

I’m not going to tell you that you won’t have your quarrels or even some misunderstandings, but the make up sex, well, only you can imagine just how great that’ll be! The thing is, there is truly someone out there that is looking for exactly who you are! Most importantly he is exactly who you need and are looking for as well.

Feng shui can help you find the complementary energy to your own, but it cannot provide physical features, sexual desires, dreams and aspirations. Couple your feng shui knowledge with a

profile match and dating data base and you will have a real chance at finding that special one you’re looking for!

Knowing your energy and the energy of your potential is just good sense. Using the tools provided by a

comprehensive psychological profile that matches potential mates makes even more sense!

Merging the heavens with the earthly realities can make for the most incredible life ever imagined by you and the one! Use the tools made available to you.

Find yourself a dating service that is all about a gay long term relationship and join it. What is a life time, with the one for you, worth? I know I couldn’t put a price tag on that! Can you?

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Sometimes in gay life or when you are first coming out, you sometimes feel like you are searching for love in all the wrong places. Well, actually it might not be the places as much as it is the energy or “chi” you project.

Here’s where feng shui can help. Feng shui works by connecting “like energy” to “like energy”.

Let me explain, I’m sure you have seen this for yourself many times. Let’s say you go to a gay western bar, the people there will most likely be dressed like cowboys and cowgirls. That bar will not attract fashion models and socialites. That’s what I mean by “like” energy attracts “like” energy.

So, let’s say the person you would like to connect to, someone with your “like energy” or kua would be found at a western style bar or club. You go there looking and still find nothing and even worse, it seems that no one there even sees you.

What’s wrong? This place has your “like energy” looking for a connection, but nothing happens, so it must be the wrong place, right?

There might not be anything wrong with the place, but more likely it’s the kua energy you are projecting. This is where feng shui can play a mean trick on you, or should I say your lack of understanding of the rules of feng shui plays the tricks.

If the feng shui isn’t right you might actually be almost invisible to your potential connections. That’s because you unwittingly masked your presence and then started feeling like it must be all your own fault because no one noticed you. Not true, the problem was, you were not using the power of feng shui to your advantage.

Now you can remedy this situation by finding out exactly how to use the powers of feng shui to your advantage in finding a date and even finding true love.

Each of us has our own feng shui energy resonance and each of those energy resonances have supportive and non supportive matches.

Knowing your own energy resonance or ‘kua’ is very important for many reasons and one of those is knowing exactly what colors to wear that will support your energy kua.

These are “your supportive kua colors” and it’s these that make you stand out in a gay crowd and get noticed by others with the same energy or kua. Those with the same kua are the people who will notice you and be attracted to you which is exactly what you have been looking for but haven’t been able to find.

So now you see, there are no wrong places, just missed-matched chi or energy. It’s the chi and not the place!

An important thing to remember about feng shui is that it’s not going to tell you how to run your life or what you should like or dislike, it has nothing to do with your religious beliefs, but feng shui can help you attract the better choices when you are at the “like energy” place looking for love, if you understand how it works and start using it to your advantage. Then you will no longer be looking for love in all the wrong places, now love will be looking for you! So, let gay life and coming out take it’s own course.

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Gay Life And Coming Out: Top ten GAY Dating Tips Your MAMA never told you!

Gay Life And Coming Out: Top Ten Tips For Gay Dating Your Mother Never Taught You
Here’s 10 important gay dating tips your mother never taught you that use time proven feng shui methods.

These important gay dating tips can help your mind create the best dating experience that you can ever have! It can blow your socks off!

1. Collect images of men or women in activities that you are a part of or want to be a part of.

2. Decide whether you want a younger or older spouse, partner or date. Make sure the images that you collect reflect what you have in mind.
Also, don’t dwell to much on perfection, the likely hood of getting an exact replica of George Clooney or Alysia Milano is very unrealistic. If
the image is of an activity that you wish for in your relationship add it. For example, it might be of someone cooking a turkey feast in a “Leave It to Beaver” household or it might be someone at a “gay swinger’s party”. Whatever it is that you desire, pick an image of that. Younger or older is important and can affect the relationship.

3. Prepare yourself mentally for gay dating using feng shui. It is probably the most fun job that you have ever done. It is a job, though. You will need to keep in mind that feng shui has a formula, but it is up to you to visualize the kind of relationship that you wish to have. Chemistry is not in feng shui, it’s between you and your prospective mate. Goals in life are also between you and your prospect. So be prepared to be let down sometimes and be prepared to commit to the one when feel that it is time. Meditation is a very good thing to do right before a date. And be open, your mind is powerful.

4. Don’t be afraid to experiment! If you thought that threesome, open relationship you were fantasying about turned out to be a bitter cup of tea, then change that image out for a new one that suits who you really are. If the monogamy thing is just a little to straight and narrow for you, then chuck those images and fill the images in your photo collection of things that make you feel alive.

5. Be safe. Always meet your prospect at a public place on the first date. Spend at least two to three hours together before you decide on the next date. One should probably have at least three dates before a sleep over. It is better to have a good idea where the relationship is
headed before you get naked. If that is all you want, getting naked, then make sure your prospect is on the same page. This shouldn’t be to
much to ask. Some relationships are going to be just a good romp in the hay. And that’s what makes this job of dating kind of exciting. But,
be prepared when you are struck by Cupid’s arrow and both of you are ready for something much more rewarding.

6. Be well groomed! You wouldn’t want your prospective date to have body odor, so expect that he or she wouldn’t want that either.
Although, body scent is very important, so don’t wear too much fragrance, be clean and allow your own scent to be sensed. Chemistry has
to do with the compatibility of your senses. Try not to mask them.

7. Be dressed for success! If you are going to a Black Tie event wear a tux or an appropriate dress. If you are going on a picnic then, wear something casual. Always dress appropriately and let your prospect know or ask your prospect directly. If there there was ever something that can make a date awkward, it is feeling out of place. Don’t be afraid to ask or to tell your date what one should wear on the occasion. However, if it is a spontaneous happenstance, then let fate carry the moment, be flexible.

Always wear a supportive color to your kua. It will make you shine, standout and help to attract the most positive response to your desires.

8. Know who you are and don’t be a afraid to flirt. Flirting let’s your date know that you are interested. If online, send a message, if you’re someplace where your prospect can see you then you will know instantly whether they are interested. Flirting is a two way boulevard with
many lanes to choose from and many angles, too. So, be yourself and you’ll attract like energy. If you don’t like what you are attracting
then change your approach. Gay dating can be tricky.

9. Express your intent. If you ask, then be prepared to make the decisions, be flexible and be prepared. If you need to go dutch, then state that when you ask. You might be able to figure something else out to do. If you don’t, the one you ask out should expect you to pay. Nothing can make a date turn sour than bad finances. If you don’t have much money, then go cheap the first three times and then bring your prospect home for a fantastic meal and most likely something more.

10. Gauge your prospects mood. You can tell if something isn’t quite right. If they aren’t willing, then make other arrangements to
suit their mood, even to the extent of postponing the date for a better time. It will usually be better all the way around. Again keep an open
and clear mind of what you desire and be flexible enough to allow it to come to fruition. Communication is the main course. Chi compatibility is
always the best outcome. Find out your chi or kua and then attract compatible chi or a compatible kua to you.

Here’s the complete list of the 10 important single dating tips:

• Collect images of people that are doing what you like doing or want to do.
• Decide on the age and look of your ideal mate
• Prepare yourself mentally
• Don’t be afraid to experiment
• Be safe
• Be well groomed, don’t cover up your essence
• Be dressed appropriately
• Flirt
• Express your intent. Be honest about your finances
• Be flexible with your single dating

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Gay Life And Coming Out: Who do you connect with?

Gay Life And Coming Out: Using feng shui to narrow your search to find the perfect date

It wasn’t all that many years ago that gay online dating was frowned upon and often considered taboo, but times have changed, technology has improved and today gay online dating is considered socially acceptable and safe to use. In fact, most online dating services now employ people to to weed out any suspicious profiles and activity on their dating sites.

Finding and joining a gay online dating site is now easier than ever and it seems that everyone who is gay and single and looking for a mate is a member of one gay online dating service or another, so when you join and see all those hundreds of profiles how will you know where to start to find that right person? Do you look for a pretty face, a nice sounding name, the right color hair, or what? This is where the power in feng shui can really help.

Using the power of feng shui for gay dating works by connecting like energies to like energies.

Everyone is born with a certain energy resonance or ‘kua’ as it is known in feng shui. Your personal kua or energy resonance contains information about your basic personality, your likes and desires. When dating, it’s always best to date someone with a matching kua, but to do this you first need to know your own kua and also your dates kua.

Applying feng shui in this manner will help narrow down your search to only those people who have supportive kua’s to your own and will be the best matched people to go out on a date with.

You will find that even after using feng shui there are still plenty of potential matches and you can be pretty sure that you’ll at least enjoy your date even if you later decide there is not any real chemistry there.

So if you want to avoid your horrid dating mistakes of the past and stop making those same mistakes over and over again you can start using the power of feng shui for gay online dating. You can find the kua of someone that is the most supportive to yours, by using a little secret formula, developed over 5000 years ago in China.

The formula has been put into an ebook on CD-ROM that take you step by step through using the ancient process of feng shui to your advantage in gay dating, either online or in the real world of everyday life. 

Now you can start going on dates that are exciting, sexy and romantic.

Feng shui is the magic of our planet and it has always been available for those willing to learn its secrets. Gay online single dating using feng shui methods has never been easier or more rewarding then right now.

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