Keep the ones that work!

The information will be the same on their profile but it will be written in a variety of ways and each profile will have a different photograph.

The reason for the variety of profiles is for them to test the ability of each to attract potential friends.

The profiles will be rotated with a new one going live at set intervals (usually each week) and then they will see which ones perform the best.

The ones that don’t attract much attention will be dropped and the most popular profiles will be the ones that are retained and improved upon if possible.

Successful online daters know that even small changes can give them a lot more chance of getting a date and it is worth their time and effort to go the extra mile to get what they are after.

While you don’t need to go as far as these people do to get a date it is well worthwhile testing the performance of different profiles to see if you can increase the rate of success and thereby have more opportunity of finding your dream date.

It is also a good idea to ‘freshen up’ your profile from time to time and maybe even change the photo because some people might have seen your old profile and not bothered looking any further whereas a new photo might be enough to stop them and get them to look further to see what you have to offer them.

Always keep copies of all your profiles in case you need to revert back to one if you find the current one isn’t performing as well as an older one.

It only takes minutes to update your profile and is worth the extra effort.

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Is just his basket you want???

Obviously your photo is the first point of attraction as that is what people will see first and that will determine whether they want to read what you have to say about yourself.

Make sure your photo is current because when you attract someone you will eventually want to meet up with them if you intend to take the relationship any further. You certainly won’t want your new friend to get a surprise when they first meet you only to find that they had been looking at a photograph that is ten years old.

Not only might they be disappointed but you will be likely to have lost their trust if they think that you have tried to fool them into thinking you were younger.

Make sure you are smiling in the photograph because that will increase your chances of getting a response.

Once they find your photo appealing they will want to learn more about you so your details on your profile need to be accurate yet interesting enough for them to want to make contact and get to know you better.

Adding humor works well provided it is appropriate as most people are looking for more fun in their lives and if they think you can offer them more fun and entertainment then you will stand a better chance of making more contacts.

The people who have the most success on the online dating sites are those who write their profiles in such a way as to offer the reader some form of benefit for making contact. Don’t use your chance to introduce yourself to brag about what you have or what you have done. You might attract some people but they will be more likely interested in what they can get from you rather than how either party can enhance the other persons life.

As this is gay feng shui dating.com, your personal is another advantage to making a good sound connection. Their birthday is the key yo thia and so yours should be accurate. Don’t lie about your birthday. Matching up your kua is the best way to get that real connection.

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It is only natural for you to want to appear more appealing and that can be achieved by making things seem a little better than you are to the person you are communicating with.

Surprise!!!!!!

Surely they would like you more if they knew you had a fit and toned physique.

Maybe knocking a few years off your age might give you the chance to date more people.

Or maybe telling them that you have a high paid job might be the determining factor whether they allow you to meet them offline or not.

Well, it might seem like a good idea at the time but what do you think the person will do when they find out that their expectations are different from the reality?

Honesty is the best policy as what they expect is what they will get and you won’t have to try to live up to any false ideals that you have created.

You want people to like the real you and they can only do that if they really know who you are and not who you want them to believe you are.

I guess if it is purely an online only relationship then it might not matter as much but so many times what starts out as an gay online friendship turns into a romance that is taken to the next level offline and if you get yourself into a situation where you would like to finally meet in person you will have some explaining to do. Avoid the disappointment.

There are so many occasions where people have started gay online friendships in different countries and eventually met up in real life, so don’t assume that it won’t happen to you.

Think of how disappointed you will be if it does turn out to be the person of your dreams when you meet and they decide to take the relationship no further because they have been misled.

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Feeling frustrated???????

There is a big difference between being aggressive or confident and being too aggressive, over-confident, or just plain sleazy or slimy from a anyone’s point of view. If you push too hard for a face-to-face, you will come across as too aggressive…maybe even, scary. Try to remember that you are not trying to close a business deal and keep the relationship progressing at a slow but steady pace. Patience is the key.

Nobody is perfect. We are all flawed in some way or another…and that includes you, as well. If you expect your prospect to be absolutely perfect and demand that, you will always be disappointed. Demanding perfectionism in your work is one thing. Demanding perfectionism from a friend, co-worker or a lover you are interested in is not just fine. It won’t happen. Expect flaws and just deal with them. Decide the ones you can live with and those you can’t.

Little white lies and false fronts won’t work. Be honest from the beginning of a relationship. Write your profile. Make it interesting but don’t make false statements. The truth will come out eventually anyway. If you say you are a lawyer who makes a million bucks a year and you are really an electrician that makes $75,000, you have set yourself up for failure.

Remember…Don’t be too aggressive, Don’t expect to ever find perfection and Don’t put on a false front. The three don’ts to gay dating.

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There will always be people who don’t have the success they expect from these sites but more often than not it isn’t because there aren’t any suitable people looking for someone like them but more likely because of the way they have used the site.

Poor presentation will generally bring poor results. Poor understanding or gay feng shui dating techniques can end badly.

Gay Feng Shui Dating Is Your Advantage

Poor contact with other people will generally mean the lines of communication will be quiet most of the time. Poke them.

It is not all that hard for anyone, no matter who they might be, to find someone willing to communicate with them out of the millions of people who visit gay dating sites online every day of the year.

There are people just like you online right now looking for other people just like you.

If they are using the sites as they are meant to be used then they will be getting the results they desire and their life will be enhanced from the experience.

You can expect the same results if you take action.

Fortunately most of the sites offer comprehensive instruction on how to get the most from your experience and it is well worth reading what they have to say as they have been in the business and listen to the feedback of the people who use their sites and there is nothing quite like consumer opinions for help build a better business model. Plus, understanding gay feng shui dating rules give you an advantage that most do not have.

Most of the techniques are common sense and common courtesy but there are tips and tricks that will help you

make more friends and create better long term relationships if you apply them correctly.

It’s all information that you could read in one evening and once you know how to apply the techniques the gay

world is your playing field, after all we are the party!

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Most of the sites will offer a free membership and this will allow you to browse the profiles and see the types of people who are searching for friendship.

The bigger sites can have thousands of people on their databases and to manually look through all the profiles would take weeks.

Depending on which site you are on some of them offer limited searching abilities for their free memberships while others won’t allow you to search until you are a member.

You will soon see that the variety of people who have their profiles on these sites is considerable and it is highly likely that there will be someone there you would like to contact and interact with further.

This is one of the reasons these sites allow you to get a free membership. They know that for most people there will be enough interest for them to sign up and become a paid member so they can take advantage of all the other features of their site.

These big sites will offer dating advice and also safe dating practices as there are always some people who you will need to be careful interacting with on these sites just as you would need to be careful of the people you meet at the local bar.

There are various systems in place at the big dating sites that attempt to reduce or eliminate the problem people and they are always trying to improve their services in all matters.

Some of the dating sites also arrange holidays and romantic getaways so they are a lot more than just an advertising medium these days.

Unless you have been on one recently then you might not know what you are missing. Join several gay dating sites to open up your gay feng shui opportunity. Remember look for someone with the matching kua to yours. Whether you use the Power of ten or the matching resonance systems will be entirely up to you. Bottoms remember to figure you kua by adding 4 not subtracting from 11.

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In gay feng shui it can be rather complicated, if you have a clouded view of who you are and what role you really play. For instance, many of us are confused by feminine role playing. It’s really simple. Do you poke or like to be poked? Masculine energy pokes and does the poking. Feminine energy likes to be poked and loves the nurture. But of course, we like to try and fit in and sometimes that makes for a confusing justification of the basic roles we play. The power of programing by our schools, peers, family and churches tend to create even more noise on the basic role that we really are. So, break it down to what you love to do. Poke or be poked. This goes for our lesbian sisters, too!

Once you figure out your true nature, then it’s just a matter of matching the formula to your feminine or masculine nature. After you have figured out the formula that is your kua or energy resonance. Then it’s just a matter of matching your kua to another with the opposite role of yours. Same kua opposite role. Unless of course you want a traditional marriage in which you’ll match to the power of ten.

Feng shui is a science and not “hokus pokus”. It is based on over 5000 years of recorded observation. The rules apply to gay and lesbian men and women as they would to straight men and women. We are after all made up of energy! For the complete formula for an equal modern gay relationship and tactics for online dating get Feng Shui Tactics For Online GAY Dating . There are real reactions both positive and negative depending on what you are looking for. Just look to chemistry and you’ll see it in action.

This Ebook is no longer available! However, Feng Shui Tactics For Online GAY Dating is an updated version of this CD-ROM ebook and a new video is in the works.

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Gay Life: Gone are the days in back alleys!

There were many of us who considered finding a date online to be something that they would never do because of what they believed was some sort of social stigma attached to people who advertised for love and friendships.  Helping the door to the closet stay shut.

These personals have been going on for years in the print media with people advertising in the local newspapers for relationships but it wasn’t until the Internet and the ability with technology to quickly find the optimum person that this type of searching for partners has really taken off and become popularized.  It’s an easy tool to help match you using gay feng shui dating techniques.

Now most people consider gay online dating to be as ‘normal’ as going to a gay bar or a gay club to find someone.

In fact many people consider gay online dating to be a far more effective and appropriate method of developing gay long term relationships than other methods.

It certainly makes it a lot easier when coming out, if people can converse with one another in their own comfortable surroundings where they don’t feel out of their comfort zone. Is a lot easier for people to express themselves when there is no fear present which is often the situation in the ‘real world’.  Better coming out online first.

It is a lot easier to make decisions on whether you would like to take the relationship any further when communicating online and if it looks like the friendship isn’t going anywhere for one or other of the people involved it is also easy to end it and move on to more suitable people before getting too involved as can happen relatively quickly offline.

There are so many more benefits of gay online dating that it was always going to increase in popularity and become accepted however the widespread acceptance and use of these sites has even amazed the experts.

Gay online dating is extremely popular and destined to become more so at a rapidly increasing rate. Coming out has never been easier.  It’s gay life in the new cyber world!

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Coming out? Choose your words carefully to attract what you want!

Just coming out and ready to dive into the online gay life? When preparing your profile you need to take the time to consider how other people will react to the words you choose.

This is particularly important, as the ideas and descriptions of what you say in your profile is being interpreted by someone else.  Why is this important?  Because, you don’t want to be misinterpreted or misunderstood by your audience.

You have to remember that a sentence can have more than one perception and people could get the completely wrong opinion of you when reading what you have written.

When you believe you have all the information that you want in your profile read it out loud and see whether  you are happy with it. Other people will be reading it to themselves and you will find that many times you will make changes after reading it aloud. You’ll also find mistakes, missed words and even missed punctuation.

If you have a friend whom you trust and respect, have them read it to see what they think and whether you should make changes. They can offer some advice of what they think you should add or delete that you may have not even considered, looking at it from a different perspective than your own.

They might also point out traits in your personality that you should add that will more likely help you find that special someone. You might find that a different perspective might offer advice on why you haven’t found anyone or why your previous relationships didn’t workout.

Sometimes we are too close to the action to see where things have gone wrong and it is not uncommon for people to make the same relationship mistakes over and over again.

When you think you are happy with what you have written leave it for a day or two before posting it online and come back to it to see if you can make any improvements or add significant information that will help you find the right person.

There is no need to rush into doing this as another day or two of delay won’t matter in the end and it will give you time to think about what you have written.

Browse your dating services data base. You should be able to get some ideas from what other people write in their profiles but make sure yours is personalized to represent you and not just a copy of someones information.  This action can also focus you on what to look for while browsing the dating data base.

You are gay and therefore you are special!!! Coming out has never been easier online. Gay Life is what you are so be proud.

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