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Sometimes in gay life or when you are first coming out, you sometimes feel like you are searching for love in all the wrong places. Well, actually it might not be the places as much as it is the energy or “chi” you project.

Here’s where feng shui can help. Feng shui works by connecting “like energy” to “like energy”.

Let me explain, I’m sure you have seen this for yourself many times. Let’s say you go to a gay western bar, the people there will most likely be dressed like cowboys and cowgirls. That bar will not attract fashion models and socialites. That’s what I mean by “like” energy attracts “like” energy.

So, let’s say the person you would like to connect to, someone with your “like energy” or kua would be found at a western style bar or club. You go there looking and still find nothing and even worse, it seems that no one there even sees you.

What’s wrong? This place has your “like energy” looking for a connection, but nothing happens, so it must be the wrong place, right?

There might not be anything wrong with the place, but more likely it’s the kua energy you are projecting. This is where feng shui can play a mean trick on you, or should I say your lack of understanding of the rules of feng shui plays the tricks.

If the feng shui isn’t right you might actually be almost invisible to your potential connections. That’s because you unwittingly masked your presence and then started feeling like it must be all your own fault because no one noticed you. Not true, the problem was, you were not using the power of feng shui to your advantage.

Now you can remedy this situation by finding out exactly how to use the powers of feng shui to your advantage in finding a date and even finding true love.

Each of us has our own feng shui energy resonance and each of those energy resonances have supportive and non supportive matches.

Knowing your own energy resonance or ‘kua’ is very important for many reasons and one of those is knowing exactly what colors to wear that will support your energy kua.

These are “your supportive kua colors” and it’s these that make you stand out in a gay crowd and get noticed by others with the same energy or kua. Those with the same kua are the people who will notice you and be attracted to you which is exactly what you have been looking for but haven’t been able to find.

So now you see, there are no wrong places, just missed-matched chi or energy. It’s the chi and not the place!

An important thing to remember about feng shui is that it’s not going to tell you how to run your life or what you should like or dislike, it has nothing to do with your religious beliefs, but feng shui can help you attract the better choices when you are at the “like energy” place looking for love, if you understand how it works and start using it to your advantage. Then you will no longer be looking for love in all the wrong places, now love will be looking for you! So, let gay life and coming out take it’s own course.

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Gay Life and Coming Out: If your love life has been full of loss for you lately, I know the pain in fact I think we all do but now it’s time to set your lost relationship in the past and get ready to move on. I mean really ready to move on. If you find yourself still pining for your ex-lover then maybe you aren’t ready to move on. You have two options, then.

The first one is to try and get back together and make things work. There are some gay feng shui methods for that too, but be careful! Besides I won’t be discussing this topic in this article. Option number two, is to sit back and heal. You will know when it’s time to get in the the saddle again.

Gay feng shui has some very specific rules for attracting the right kind of chi or energy resonance for each individual. First be sure to figure out exactly what your gay personal kua is. This is information you must have and being gay makes this step much more imperative, because we are very special and have different kuas.

Now, for you who are really ready to get back in the saddle and are ready for a meaningful and awesomely HOT gay relationship then let’s get started using feng shui! When you are using feng shui, like energy attracts like energy. So if you are pining, wining, crying and depressed, you will attract wining, pining, crying, depressed. Not exactly the best foundation for a fulfilling and excitingly HOT gay relationship! So the number one rule again is, like energy attracts like energy!

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Meditate before you go on your next date. It is very important to clear your mind and then begin to live the dream that you want in your relationship! Now when you go on the date, put on a new face! I don’t mean make up and eye shadow. I mean act like what you want!

If you want hot, sexy, steamy with vibrant confidence, then become that which you seek! The better you are at acting the part the easier it will become to actually be the part! If you are by nature a pessimist, a winner then work on being an optimist and stop wining if that is what you seek. If you are shy by nature then work on being more assertive and vibrant.

Now here is the thing if you’re looking for more than a one night stand. You will want to find someone with a matching kua to yours so that both of you are seeking similar things. If you are a kua of one, feminine, then you would best be matched to a kua of one, masculine.

However, if you seek conflict and adversity, which by the way can be quite exciting when things are good and extremely difficult when things are bad, you might consider a riskier kua (one that doesn’t match). Many seek this kind of relationship subconsciously, opposites do NOT attract if the seeking is for the adventure, so you would best think about what kind of experience you are seeking.

I hope you have grown enough not to seek such hard and usually painful relationships, but hey some are really into a type of BDSM of the heart. It’s all up to you!

Next when you are done with figuring out what is the best kua for your own you’ll want to read all the entries on this blog and checkout the CD-ROM FREE preview pages for easy to use guides in the “Visit Our Friends” section of this blog at the bottom of the page.

They all have one thing in common with this article and that is getting the best results that I can offer to your dating experience using amazing feng shui secrets that have been proven to work for thousands of years.

So put on your chaps, get saddled up, put on the right hat and you’ll attract the match your heart has been looking for. You will be amazed that with the proper attitude and clear vision of the energy you seek, you’ll find exactly that! Train your subconscious with meditation to coincide with your conscious mind and you’ll get that man or lesbian of your dreams. Match your kua!

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